Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Disappointment








Disappointment

I never came across this word in my mind.
How do you deal them?
Leave it and forget about it?
Adjust the level of your expectations?
Give up on those you think might not change your life?
Don't persist the matter anymore as it might not give you any results?
Move on onto something valuable or more important?

At life, we faced such problem like disappointment? Sometime you help the person by expecting them to return your favor. Can be u like someone, you hope that you want them to accept you?
sometime your friend didn't meet the needs of yours?
sometime they done something wrong that led you to disappoint.
I began to wonder, such disappointment do not pro-long. It's a temporary uncomfortable feeling cause you displeasure about yourself. You try to find your way, to convince yourself.

I would like to go through a self-reflected questions to drop off this Disappointment from yourself.

Ask Yourself,
1. Can you gain anything?
2. worth thinking about it?
3. Why u persist this feeling in you?
4. Do this matter able to comfort you or compromise your feeling?
5. What are the possible consequences of having such feelings?

In conclusion, I am a human being - no matter where you're and go. This is life. Take it or Leave it. We know sometime it's hard to do that way. however, if you don't choose to move on. No one can help you and is you yourself. Don't move on, your uncomfortable feeling of disappointment will always be there and may cause you to think even deeper, explore more reasons. As you can't reason yourself out. To settle this differences, Leave it and Move on. as such, in future you could do better.

Adios guys,
Hope my tips help or somehow.


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